Craig D. Burma

 

Dear Brian –                                         May 14, 2010

                                    

My heart leaps for joy as you approach the accomplishment of being confirmed in the United Methodist Church. The commitment your Mom and I made at your dedication is one important step closer to being fulfilled: to bring you up in the way and teachings of the Lord.

 

I am a Christian because with Him my life goes better. That does NOT mean that it always goes "well." Our family has had our share of ups and downs. But through it all, whether mountain top or deep, dark valley, I have never lost my faith in God. And if ever I was tempted to, I needed only to look at you to see that of my own (or Mom and I's) doing , we could not have created such a beautiful being as you, Brian.

 

You are amazing. I love the way to are willing to help anyone immediately, completely and enthusiastically. Whether sticking up for your stepbrother/sister when the teenage boys attacked you with the airsoft guns, or helping football players up off the ground, I always see your empathy for others coming through. I loved watching your towering homeruns sail to the fence in 2006 baseball; followed by your incredible unassisted triple play at pitcher among hundreds of other outs. God has given you precious physical strength and talent. And along with that, God has given you a wonderful creativity and writing skills. …WOW what a kid!

 

I hope you remember you can only do so much and have the right to grow up before you take on adult responsibilities. Your Mom and Chris, Tina and I have the experience to solve our own situations. You should not worry about them. You will have plenty to deal with when you are an adult. Be patient.

 

I remember so many times when you and Scott would dance along side each other, part doing your own moves and partly looking at of the corner of your eye to see what the other was doing. I hope it continues that way. "Dance" your own dance in life but keep an eye out for each other and be there to help Scott or Jason. I know you will.

 

Finally, remember that the more I revolve around this world, the more I realize it does not revolve around me. Humans are unique in assigning blame to others, nature, objects and even God for situations we create. All in defense of our ego. But blaming others takes away our power to build a bright future through our own good choices.

 

I hope you read Romans 12, my favorite chapter of the Bible. "If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone." Romans 12:18

 

Love always,

 

Dad

 

 

May 14, 2010